Just a little warning???

I never get any.

Not even 10 minutes ago I was fine. Writing an email joking to Sir about post it notes. Now…I just want to cry.

No trigger, no tangible reason. 

This is the crappy side that my part a personality has real issue with. I was productive and now…nope can’t even think of what I have to do.

I just want to cry and sleep. 

I was outside before and a couple went by hand in hand. It made me realize there are actual things I miss about a more traditional relationship. My ex husband was mostly a disaster, but he had his good moments. I miss …I guess having someone there. I wanted independence and well…now I’ve gotten it and it’s a bite of a curse.

I know for a fact that I love living alone….but I hate being so lonely. I have people, friends, play partners,vanilla and not. But I still have this feeling….

I could not ask for a better and more understanding Sir and I’m so sorry you have to put up with my …. Blahx3.

I also think a part of me is …. Fighting the changes in me.

I really just need a hug. 

9 thoughts on “Just a little warning???”

      1. It’s perfectly NORMAL!! It’s what makes you who you are. I become a blithering mess too at some of the silliest of things. There’s a song called Sometimes Goodbye Is A Second Chance, I think that’s the name of it. Anyway, our older son got into some trouble, got sent off for over a month and a half and that song reminds me of that time period and him. That was about 7 years ago, I still shed tears when I hear that song. Sometimes a good cry is all you need ☺

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      2. Thank you for sharing. So just finished with cry number two for the day, my problem is much more In the timing as you will see me crying on a bus, walking down the street, hiding in the woman’s room at work, or even worse in my cubicle typing and just tears are pouring. I want to go numb again sometimes. It was easier

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      3. I believe that tears are cathartic. I am the same why with crying. It doesn’t seem to matter where I am or who is around. Yes, it may have been easier being numb, but honestly, did you feel ALIVE? Think about it.

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  1. Easier?? I’d much rather feel ALIVE than numb!!! That’s what HE WANTS!!! If you go there, he wins. He wins again and gets what he wants. To break you. Break you down. I don’t even know the dude, or you and I want him to feel what you feel. Must just be the bitch in me 😆


  2. Tears are cathartic but they won’t help anything. Stop being lonely. No I don’t mean to be a dick. What I’m saying is look at what it is that makes you feel lonely, stop wanting it. Not in a harsh way but in an understanding way. If physical presence or lack of is making you feel lonely ask yourself why… either fix the problem or stop using this as a value judgement for your life. Harsh, I know. There are many lonely people but they survive… so will you. When you feel sorry for yourself the rest of you sympathizes. See where that goes?


    1. Ok so first, I don’t feel sorry for myself. On paper I have a great life. I was raised to strive for perfection, never to settle. In the past that was always focused on very tangible things, now I am trying to apply the same focus on the emotions that I’ve kept buried.
      You must also understand I don’t write this blog for any other reason that to deal with crap as it happens.
      I understand you have very strong opinions on ….well just about everything. I must say that some of the comments I’ve read from you on others blogs have been (thinking of a “nice” way to put it) less than constructive. I do hear where your coming from, but I don’t wallow.
      I have made many large life changes and even the changes made for the better can take am emotional toll. You see I don’t want to shut down, that is what I’ve done my entire life, I want balance and to feel everything.


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