Who wears a turtle neck to an orgy?

Lol, to my defense it was a rope party, not an orgy by any means.

The outfit was extreme Audry Hepburn. Cigar houndstooth and polka dot pants, boots and a very fitted black turtle neck. BG invited me to a private rope party at her house. She had a guest list of 10, 6 showed. One couple experts, one getting there and her and another rope bottom. Sir and I thought it would be more of a rope/play party, but it wasn’t.

It started very social, limited wine and very healthy snacks. Los of talking and a break down of this years shibari-con. It has been a year since I’ve had any rope play.  Last year for my birthday I had wanted to be suspended, but we didn’t know many people in the community at that time.  Since then due to my health, rope has not have been something that fell under the “safe” category.

I had spoke with the female of the experienced couple at the party I went to without Sir right before my surgery. She told me her partner was very good at first time bottoms for suspension. Tonight he wanted to demonstrate for the other couple a harness he had learned. I really forgot how nice rope felt, even fully clothed. It was like a big warm hug. I told Sir it was like a hug he had given to me. Even from a far he ….not made, but supported and encouraged me to go tonight. There is something so special to me about the bondage aspect of BDSM. It makes me feel cared for.

After that there were a few more scenes and a beautiful lightening bolt suspension tagged “the wrecking ball”. We chatted and laughed and generally had a great time.

BG was right, she has one of those city apartments that people would kill for. So it was an honor that I was one of the few people she has invited over. After a big hug and thank you…off for the long subway ride back home.

Time for bed and tomorrow I may break down the 3 songs I had on repeat. They are songs that remind me of who I am, what I feel, and the people that have affected me.

Side note: I’m pretty sure if I was still the pint sized ballerina, I’d be impossibly additcted to rope.

 

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